on the 11th February 09...i lost my last grandma...my mom's mom
the sad thing is that i was not there to bid her farewell..
cause i am far away here in Sabah...i guess that the sad part of being here..i would be missing a lot of family events...
my grandma was already old....sound mean of me right? but she was old...i think maybe 90 years old... she was always sick too...but she could still go about her daily affairs...
truth to be said...i was never close with her...one of the reason could be that we didnt leave together. She was in Seremban and i was in KL. We would visit her during holidays. Her place would be our "kampung". It was fun going back to Seremban. Meeting all the relatives. her place was huge... the house had about 6 rooms. fun? yes it was...
but she did come over to visit sometimes... when we were small...
i remember once..my parnets went out and she was baby-sitting us.....she called all of us...4 sibiling...and told us a story...
i cant remember the whole story but it was about this family....
a father took his family to the jungle so that the family can learn to live together...the father divided the work among the family members.... i think some of the family members didnt want to help out..
then i dont remember after that heheheheh....
but i do remember her telling that it is important for us as a family to help each other...
she told us that we should help our mother..cause during the time she stayed over she realise that our mom would do everything for us..and it is true...my mom does everthing for us
she said that we should help our mom cause my mom has been working very hard since young...
my grandma was a single mom for a long time cause my grand dad die early. my grandma used to rear cows. she added that my mom used to help her out...
well this was one event that will always remind me of her...
the sad thing is that i was not there to bid her farewell..
cause i am far away here in Sabah...i guess that the sad part of being here..i would be missing a lot of family events...
my grandma was already old....sound mean of me right? but she was old...i think maybe 90 years old... she was always sick too...but she could still go about her daily affairs...
truth to be said...i was never close with her...one of the reason could be that we didnt leave together. She was in Seremban and i was in KL. We would visit her during holidays. Her place would be our "kampung". It was fun going back to Seremban. Meeting all the relatives. her place was huge... the house had about 6 rooms. fun? yes it was...
but she did come over to visit sometimes... when we were small...
i remember once..my parnets went out and she was baby-sitting us.....she called all of us...4 sibiling...and told us a story...
i cant remember the whole story but it was about this family....
a father took his family to the jungle so that the family can learn to live together...the father divided the work among the family members.... i think some of the family members didnt want to help out..
then i dont remember after that heheheheh....
but i do remember her telling that it is important for us as a family to help each other...
she told us that we should help our mother..cause during the time she stayed over she realise that our mom would do everything for us..and it is true...my mom does everthing for us
she said that we should help our mom cause my mom has been working very hard since young...
my grandma was a single mom for a long time cause my grand dad die early. my grandma used to rear cows. she added that my mom used to help her out...
well this was one event that will always remind me of her...

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